With people? I’m not quite sure what this question entails, but I’ll tell a quick story!!

Back in the 7th grade I made friends with this one person in my band class who had similar interests as I did. They showed me new stuff like videogames and cartoons and other cool fun stuff that later down the line would greatly influence my art. I looked up to said person a lot, and they even got me into posting my art online and stuff. I thought “whoa i made a really cool friend!!” little did I know I made friends with someone who I guess emotionally abused and gas lighted me each time I disagreed with them. Um, I remember they asked me if I could hang out with them and I said I couldn’t because I had prior plans, they went ahead and pulled the “I showed you so much art and cool stuff, and when I ask YOU to hang out with me you don’t want to?? what kind of a friend are you??? what if I fucking die and you won’t be there to hang out with me??” thing. Yiiiiikes. I was a young and naive Sydney so I really didn’t know what to say, and at that age when a person goes and says that stuff, that shit hits you hard LOL. I still didn’t hang out with them but looking back on it now, they constantly did this. I used to wear a ton of circle lenses and this person really wanted to get some so they asked me what websites I went to and I shared all my resources. Said person then goes “oh, i don’t know how to buy these online…can you buy them for me?” I said no because aye, I was a student with very limited funds, and this person again went “you never care about me. you’re never going to care about me. you don’t care that i’ll never be pretty!” Like what the heck man. LOL
Eh, long story short I cut off all contact with this person and grew from that experience.